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Cindy exchanges biting emails with grandmother of 12 year old girl, Casey befriended when out on bond.

January 13, 2009

Local 6 News has obtained an email that Cindy Anthony wrote to Lois Peter 3 days ago.  In August, Peter’s 12 year old granddaughter hosted a candlelight vigil for Caylee while Casey was home on bond.  Casey sent the girl a bracelet, a letter, and some emails which promted Peter to unsuccessfully seek a restraining order against Cindy Anthony.  Cindy continued to correspond with the girl after Casey returned to jail.cindy-112608

Cindy and Lois Peter have exchanged biting emails recently with Cindy telling her she would not be invited to Caylee’s funeral.  Peter responded saying  “I would not want my granddaughter around a person that condones her daughter killing her own child. At least I know where mine is.”

Cindy Anthony replied, “As for my daughter, she never hurt Caylee and that will be proven, she loved her deeply.”

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What the hell is it with Cindy?  She acts like Caylee’s funeral is the social event of the season and to not be invited is the greatest punishment anyone could ever receive. Like Leonard, Lois Peter could go to the PUBLIC memorial and there’s not a thing Cindy can do about it.  It’s PUBLIC!

Cindy, why are you spending so much time un-inviting people to Caylee’s funeral?  Plan the funeral first–THEN you can un-invite to your hearts content.

43 Comments leave one →
  1. sophie permalink
    January 13, 2009 11:09 pm

    I never knew that funerals, by their general nature, were by invitation only. Last I checked, anyone who wanted could pay their respects to the dead if a service was publicized in an obituary. Unless a person was a known trouble maker or a source of discontent or pain to the family, then that person might need to be stopped at the door and politely asked to refrain from attending.

    What is Cindy going to be doing at this private funeral? Will she be grieving, or playing ‘bouncer’?

    She SHOULD be sitting at the front, and worrying about whether or not she likes everyone sitting behind her should be the LAST thing on her mind.

    What’s this with Cindy’s 3 year old ‘you can’t come to my party cause your not invited’ attitude?

    If it’s private, it’s private. Those excluded from the loop won’t know the location or time. Why bother to try to rub it in by saying ‘you’re not invited’. Geez.

    Has Cindy Anthony been reading up on her etiquette? Methinks not. Then again, it’s been pretty obvious from the beginning that Cindy Anthony, the truth and Emily Post are strangers.

  2. norma permalink
    January 13, 2009 11:25 pm

    Cindy never seeks to amaze me with her denial and ignorance. I hope she has found a place out of the public eye when her daughter goes to prison, for murder, for life or death. I respect a parent or friend for that matter that forgives the person but not the act. As a parent it would be very difficult to imagine your child doing something so awful, tragic, stupid and inhumane. You can still love them. Cindy is not at this point. She has yet to accept the facts and the real facts not the ones according to Cindy. I wonder where Casey learned her “how to get my own reality”? Cindy needs to shut up, sit quietly in Caylee’s room and reflect on all the crap that went down in that room, in that house and got and stare at the car to see what is real. After this is over I hope they move on to another world and not make Caylee’s death into a “joke”. She is close. Cindy is making a mockery of Caylee’s existence by “funeral by invitation only”. Her denial of how she raised her daughter to be exactly the way she is, a liar. I hope Cindy is ready to present Caylee with the Mother of the Year award at the end of the trial perhaps at the sentencing phase.

  3. norma permalink
    January 13, 2009 11:35 pm

    Oops, I meant Casey for MOY< The As are beyond belief. Unless Lee’s pregnant girlfriend is just like them(God help her) she will run fast and far far away. These are no repeat Grandparent material, ever again.

  4. Paul in PG BC permalink
    January 13, 2009 11:37 pm

    Yes the WHACKJOB has lost it.She will be found Inzaney!!She taught the kiddie killer well I can see.
    GEORGE if I was you I’d get the hell outta there before you end up in prison,run,run while you have the………..

  5. MAND permalink
    January 14, 2009 12:17 am

    You said it Mystery.. she’s acting like it’s a black tie event. damm that woman doesn’t have the brains God gave a goose…she has to be arguing with someone all the time…she never says anything nice to anyone…this is the punishment…you won’t be invited…Cindy is living in that make believe land…she thinks she’s a celebrity and is doing as she sees on tv when they do have funerals by invitation….she thinks she’s a freaking star…bet she is having camera withdrawal. What a piece of work…it’s still about image.

  6. January 14, 2009 12:52 am

    at first i felt so bad for cindy. not any more she a bitch of bitches . because this would be the time you would feel soft hearted. not worrying about becker with every one . i think god took caylee home before cindy could turn her into herself and casey.

  7. robin permalink
    January 14, 2009 1:25 am

    I know! I totally agree with everyone. Shouldn’t she still be grieving right now? What does she want………….us to love Casey? She keeps saying we will find out she didn’t do it and loved that child. We keep finding out the opposite.

    Cindy, you raised a monster who murdered her innocent child.

    What does everyone think Cindy will come up with if they find Casey’s fingerprints on the duct tape?

  8. robin permalink
    January 14, 2009 1:34 am


    Shame on you Cindy for not protecting Caylee. This is exactly how this happened. Cindy believing lie after lie putting Caylee into danger. I know I am saying mean things but I am so outraged at Cindy’s behavior. Who knows what mother of the year put Caylee through before all this happened. Cindy and George are so blind to all of the reckless behavior. Caylee should of been taken away from the whole family a long time ago. They are a bunch of liars and enablers so who knows what went on in that household to put Caylee into danger.

  9. FairTrial permalink
    January 14, 2009 6:13 am

    I am appalled with the hatred of anything with the surname Anthony. The judgement in this matter is really disturbing. People on here either have no compassion or they have no concept of how horrible this must be for this women ESPECIALLY. Her granddaughter is dead, her daughter is in jail for murder one. Her life is flipped upside down. No one knows what happened to Caylee and the ones that may, aren’t talking. She loves her daughter, and she believes she didn’t do it. She is fiercely loyal and she should be commended.

    I can’t even imagine the anguish she feels every single day and you guys have the nerve to comment on her life, as if it’s for show only.

    Remember, the focus should be on finding justice for Caylee. Nothing more. Not lynching Casey, or her parents, brother or anyone else. Unless you are proven guilty beyond a reason doubt, you are innocent.

  10. FairTrial permalink
    January 14, 2009 6:18 am

    Also, from what I understand there is a private funeral, and honestly I think she isn’t out of line at all to let this woman know how she feels.

    This is a women who believes Casey did it, and blames Cindy as well. I could only imagine if something like this happened to me. If someone is attacking my children, we’ve got a problem. No one knows a child more than it’s mother.

    She knows Casey has problems, she’s a liar, she’s a thief, but she also knows she was a mother who loved her child. Plain and simple.

  11. January 14, 2009 6:32 am

    Ohhh yes she loved her so much she often called her s Snot…. She kept her away from Grandma and Grandpa for over 3 weeks because like she told Lee “Maybe I am a spiteful Bit%h…. She loved her deeply because everyone who loves their kids throws them away like yesterdays trash…. not even in a shallow grave.

    Don’t tell me what I would or wouldn’t do. I have been in Cindy’s Shoes with the EXCEPTION MY GRANDDAUGHTER IS ALIVE. Why? Because I knew what my daughter was doing…. because I didn’t wait 3 Weeks and because protecting my daughter WAS NEVER MY Priority. Protecting my 3 year old granddaughter WAS MY 1st and ONLY Priority! All the Adults had choices … That Child NEVER DID. Who was looking out for her? Who was protecting Her? Support my daughter in something like this? You have got to be kidding! This whole family would not know the truth if it bit them in the butt.

  12. Boston permalink
    January 14, 2009 6:47 am

    Norma has used a word that has been absent for too long-ignorance. The perfect word. Cindy isn’t a pitbull she’s just ignorant.

  13. Boston permalink
    January 14, 2009 6:49 am

    Fair Trial-How do we know that Casey loved her child?

  14. Boston permalink
    January 14, 2009 7:00 am

    Christina-This whole family does know the truth. They have known from day one. They made a conscious effort to avoid the truth and misrrepresent the facts to the best of their ability.
    We all would hope that faced with a moral dilemma that we would rise to the occasion and do the right thing. If you had a life which was similar to Casey Anthony than I think you are in a position to point out how you handled it.

    Many of us have not but all of us have been a part of a family which functions or is a work in progress (to some dysfuntional). You bring your personal life story and we appreciate it and thank you for your candor.

    We have to also keep in mind that many writers are gentle people who are outraged at this case. Some cannot bring themselved to believe that a parent would not love a child. We need to ask essential questions without preconceptions, after all we discuss together and not alone.

  15. Boston permalink
    January 14, 2009 7:01 am

    If you had a life event-see second paragraph,second line

  16. January 14, 2009 7:15 am

    I do believe Casey loved her daughter………BUT her jealousy of Cindy and Caylees relationship took presidence over that. Cindy is a control freak and so is Casey and they used poor little Caylee as a pawn between them to torture each other.

  17. itsamysterytome permalink*
    January 14, 2009 8:13 am

    I think Cindy is just continuing to do what she has done for most of Casey’s life. Do damage control. For Cindy, in spite of what she might say,I think it’s always been about Casey.

    Wasn’t it Cindy’s brother, Rick, that stated Casey was always treated like Cindy’s princess–and that he felt sorry for Lee?

    (note: Is Lee’s girlfriend really pregnant? If so, I wonder if Lee is rushing to fill the void left by Caylee–A child that is not the “favored one” will often spend his/her life trying to become the “favored one”)

    I have no doubt that Cindy is in anguish. I’m sure she is, but, as you said, the focus should be on justice for Caylee. I don’t think Cindy is interested in the truth at all if it means Casey did this. I think she is in her all to familiar “damage control” for Casey mode, She will do everything in her power to clear her daughter, regardless of whether or not she is guilty. IMO, she will never believe Casey did this, even if Casey looked her in the eye and admitted it.

  18. Moody Monica permalink
    January 14, 2009 8:20 am

    I think Casey loves Casey.

    I don’t really know what is up with Cindy…the only thing I can imagine is that she has gone completely over the edge. I keep trying to put myself in her shoes and if I were…I would barely have the strength to get myself out of bed and function each day.
    I agree with Diana…I think Caylee was constantly used as a pawn…they used her to punish each other. That theory is proven by the e-mail Cindy sent to Lois Peter..telling that she would not be invited to the funeral….that is the same type of behavior.

  19. WolfmanJack permalink
    January 14, 2009 8:51 am

    beginning with “I got off work from Universal” (provable lie) left Caylee on the steps of the apartment complex with Zanny…no wait it was at Jay Blanchard Park….no wait…waited 31 days to report Caylee missing…smell of human decomposition in the trunk of her car…hair samples from dead body in trunk matching Caylee…car never reported stolen because it wasn’t.

    Chloroform searches, missing children searches, how to break neck searches on her computer.

    And this is only the half of it.

    yeesh…anyone dumb enough to believe Casey at this point..I have some lovely swamp land to sell you.

    “Doesn’t have the brains God gave a goose” I love that one. LOL

  20. sophie permalink
    January 14, 2009 9:06 am

    When I was a kid, I loved my dolls. I also didn’t take very good care of them.

    Casey didn’t love Caylee…Caylee was in her mind a POSSESSION and ‘loved’ her as much as one can love a possession.

    She was a doll forced on her, and sometimes the doll was cute and fun to dress up and play with, and sometimes the doll was not fun, cried, whined, made messes, had poopy diapers, a runny nose, and kept Casey up at night.

    I mean kept Cindy up at night. You just know that Casey got to sleep through because of her important ‘job’.

    Casey didn’t want anyone looking down on her socially for walking out on her daughter at the 11th hour, giving her away to the grandparents.

    She also was hell bent on getting back at her mother for kicking her out.

    Caylee was just a doll that Casey got tired of playing with and threw away.

    The Anthony’s know that.

    And while I applaud the free speech everyone here is entitled too…..

    Cindy Anthony is sitting home, going through media attention withdrawal and has nothing to do.

    But I bet she’s going through this blog with a fine tooth comb and is probably participating on it.

    Like all of us, she’s a person who’d like a person in trouble to receive a Fair Trial.

  21. itsamysterytome permalink*
    January 14, 2009 9:14 am

    I think Sophie’s analogy is a very good one. Caylee was like a doll to Casey and she thought of her as a possession. If Casey is truly a sociopath, (as Cindy herself has stated), she does not understand the concept of love–but she would understand the concept of a possession–it was her toy to do with as she pleased.

  22. January 14, 2009 9:19 am

    The question that was NEVER asked of Casey or answered by Cindy is this: Where did she actually go on the day she claimed to drop off Caylee? It has been proven that she was not working. Where did she go for 8 hours? Why did she even need a nanny and how did she pay for that? How did she pay for car insurance? Cell phone? Slutty dresses and hooker boots?

  23. itsamysterytome permalink*
    January 14, 2009 9:24 am

    Exactly, Diana. And wouldn’t that be one of the first questions out of your mouth when you found out she didn’t have a job?? Where did you go that day after you “dropped Caylee off with the babysitter?” It wasn’t to work, “sweetheart”…so, where were you?

  24. niecey456 permalink
    January 14, 2009 9:35 am

    I knew in my heart when I first heard about the email who it was sent to. Unbelievable!!! Cindy can’t run her mouth in public right now, so the next best thing is to attack via email. The more this case goes on the more I realize that Casey truly is a product of her mother. I didn’t want to believe that for a long time, but Cindy keeps driving it home with her behavior. Here is my message to Cindy: “Grow Up And Do The Right Thing And Lay That Baby To Rest!!! Get Past Yourself And Your Sociopath Of A Daughter!!!!!

  25. itsamysterytome permalink*
    January 14, 2009 10:36 am

    You did nail it niecey! You’re also right that Casey is a product of her mother–the nightmare from hell version. She is Cindy, but to the extreme.

  26. niecey456 permalink
    January 14, 2009 11:53 am

    You know, I’m just soooo sick of the foolish games with these people. They must take lots of sleeping pills to sleep at night.

  27. MAND permalink
    January 14, 2009 12:32 pm

    Has anyone thought that Cindy is a borderline sociopath? She didn’t become as bad as KC. due to being raised differently..Cindy’s mother tried to control her where Cindy fed KC’s behaviour.KC. is also Narcissistic. Cindy and KC. both know only how to own and control..they have yet another problem..they are co-dependant. The problems between these two increased as KC. got older and wanted to be in control of her own life..CA.could not relinquish her control over KC. and that led to KC’s wild out of control behaviour. Forcing KC. to have the baby was a control move..Cindy felt it would slow KC. down plus she would have more control because of the child. I have always questioned why KC. did not have an abortion.she denied she was pregnant up to and past her 7th she could have done so and no-one would have known. According to KC. she was not involved or in love with the guy so what made her stay pregnant?? I don’t think she could have been anti abortion..she sure as hell wasn’t anti murder!!

    There was absoluty no reason to email this woman and tell her she was not welcome to come to the funeral…she(CA) was in need to vent that KC. was not guilty..she has not been able to do so in a while..she has now figured out a way to get back in the public…her comments in the media..second to what she really prefers..but for now..this will have to do.

    Will Conway tell her to stay the hell off the computer????

  28. Molly permalink
    January 14, 2009 12:40 pm

    I’ll take it one step further. Cindy also thinks Caylee is her “possession”. Casey too. Anyone that disagrees with her about Cassey, OUT you go. That is more than half of the public. She thought she”owned” all of those toys at the memorial site, she thinks she “owns” this video tape that Hoover made. She was livid with LP because he had a prayer vigil at Blanchard Park for Caylee (who SHE own’s). Now she is picking and choosing who can attend a public memorial because it’s for Caylee (who SHE owns, so she can decide who will be allowed). wow…..

  29. Paul in PG BC permalink
    January 14, 2009 12:43 pm

    How does Georgie boy live under the same roof as the WHACKJOB is my question??
    F.T you sound just like SiNdy!!Whats that smell??How many times did the G.P.’s meet Z.G.??
    Now why don’t you call SiNdy and ask her Who done it she has all the answers-407-281-0646 that is the home PH.I do believe!!
    Mean while the Crazyone gets room service 3 times a day,her own room,screw that put her in population so she can have a taste of things to come,see how fast she fesses up!!

  30. Molly permalink
    January 14, 2009 12:47 pm

    I knew things were too quiet & it was only a matter of time when Cindy would rear her head. I thought they were finally doing the right thing keeping quiet, no interviews, mourning privately. No one has bothered them at all. She just can’t help herself.

  31. Molly permalink
    January 14, 2009 12:53 pm

    I agree with Mystery, Cindy started damage control as soon as they brought the car home. She knew the car had the smell of death in it. She didn’t call the police or Casey right away. She went to work washing the pants & cleaning out the car & airing it out. Then she tried to contact Casey & go look for her. She knew.

  32. mary permalink
    January 14, 2009 1:03 pm

    Who sent who the first email? Was it Peters or was it Cindy? Maybe Cindy should just have the private funeral and be done with it. No where does it say by law she has to have a public funeral or memorial just to please other people. She may have regrets later by going public and dealing with all the Lois Peters out there. Why put yourself through all of this kind of nosense? just put Caylee to rest and forget what other think or want to believe.

  33. mary permalink
    January 14, 2009 1:05 pm

    Oh Gees imagine that Lois Peters ran right to the news with this little tidbit shes a real winner!

  34. MAND permalink
    January 14, 2009 1:35 pm

    Molly..That’s what I meant…Cindy owns all..that includes George and Lee..and if Lee’s girlfriend moves and has a baby … guess what??
    She will own her also.

    She notified the NEWS..NOT..THE NATIONAL ENQUIRER..huge difference.

  35. Kari permalink
    January 14, 2009 1:55 pm

    Fair Trial, you are perfectly right in condemning ‘hate language’. I certainly agree. What you have most likely missed is the slow, tortuous, anguished evolution of this case, which has driven most of us batty.

    Some people started out angry and vindictive, but many of us, and particularly Mystery’s group, (and Kreuzer’s Korner, too) are open-minded, and caring people whose natural courtesy and compassion has been eroded by this case. Especially by poor Cindy with her tendency to blurt out whatever comes to mind, and to tenaciously defend her own point of view.

    A lot of people don’t like Cindy and believe she is responsible for her daughter’s actions. I believe she is her daughter’s primary victim, and like you, I respect her tragic devotion to Casey. I wish things could end well for Cindy, but I no longer see any possibility whatsoever for a happy ending.

    We may not know, we may never know what exactly happened to Caylee, what exact role Casey played in it. But we now know what never happened:
    Casey did not drop Caylee off at a vacant apartment and come back later to find her gone.
    Caylee was not stolen away to Puerto Rico by a nanny named Zanny. No one saw Caylee get on a plane, or playing in a mall, or anywhere else for about six months. Caylee is dead. Caylee did not die accidentally from the Florida heat, or drown accidentally in the family pool. Caylee was murdered.

    Just these few facts must cause Cindy untold misery, and guarantee that Casey will not be proven completely innocent. If she is innocent of murder, she is still guilty of so much else, that it hardly matters…

  36. itsamysterytome permalink*
    January 14, 2009 3:52 pm

    “A lot of people don’t like Cindy and believe she is responsible for her daughter’s actions. I believe she is her daughter’s primary victim, and like you, I respect her tragic devotion to Casey.”

    Kari–I have never once thought of Cindy as her daughter’s victim. I’ll have to think about that statement. I’ve looked at this as Cindy moulding her daughter into the person she is today, but I never thought that perhaps, instead, Cindy has spent her life bending to Casey’s will–the will of a sociopath. That would mean it wouldn’t matter much what kind of moral lessons Cindy might have tried to instill in her–she would have been incapable of learning them. Interesting thought.

  37. itsamysterytome permalink*
    January 14, 2009 3:53 pm

    Mand–“knows her” has sent you another message on the kiomarie post

  38. MAND permalink
    January 14, 2009 4:13 pm

    Thanks Mystery…I’ll go read it

    Be back later

  39. Lily~Rose permalink
    January 15, 2009 6:03 am


    If your so appalled, why do you post here? Go home!!!

  40. Thecla permalink
    January 15, 2009 11:16 pm

    I tend to agree with Kari. If you listen carefully to the jail house tapes, you will see that Casey is in control. George and Cindy try so hard to not make Casey angry. They bend over backwards to be nice. I believe Casey found out how to hold Caylee over their heads and when Cindy finally challenged Casey with the fact that she was stealing, what did Casey do? Played her “trump” card and took Caylee away from Cindy forever. Casey “loved” Caylee as long as it was convenient for her to do so. It made her look good in other people’s eyes but when she realized how much her boyfriend loved Caylee, what did she do?.. She broke up with him.

    and when her new boyfriend didn’t want the little snot nose (Casey’s name for her little daughter) to come over, then Casey just put her to sleep instead of asking Cindy or George to take care of her. And if Casey really loved her Mom and Dad, why oh why would she not tell them Caylee was missing? Caylee’s beautiful little face and voice captured the hearts of so many people. Casey is a grown woman, flawed or not, she can take care of herself but where is the justice for little Caylee? I don’t believe as a parent we should uphold our children in wrongdoing. If we do, are we not condoning the crime? My heart goes out to Cindy, she has lost her lovely, little granddaughter but she lost her daughter a long time ago.

  41. January 17, 2009 11:06 pm


  42. January 22, 2009 10:36 pm

    If Cindy had any class she would quietly set a funeral date and just have people who were close to caylee allow no media and let her granddaughter rest in peace.
    I don’t know about the Anthonys but in my faith we have something called last rites or sacrament of the sick it blesses the persons body and allows for the soul to find its place with God. It also gives comfort and closure to the family left behind Now I know our little doll is certainly in heaven , but how can Cindy just leave Caylee’s bones in a box in the basement of a funeral parlor. Love ,Love, Love ,Cindy loved Caylee, George loved Caylee Casey loved caylee, everyone loved Caylee ,then why in the hell doesn’t anyone show her the respect and love she deserves and lay that baby to rest. This is the most cold and heartless thing I could imagine one person doing to another let alone a persons Grandmother. Cindy when you go maybe they will leave you in the basement in a box for a few months you reap what you sow. maybe you were raised by wolves?

  43. itsamysterytome permalink*
    January 22, 2009 11:07 pm

    I agree with you 100% dLana. It’s so hard to imagine that you would allow someone you love to remain unburied for this length of time. It’s a shame.

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