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Public Memorial for Caylee Anthony is when—–?

February 5, 2009

According to the Anthonys they have been waiting more than 6 weeks to be given the remains of Caylee. That may happen as early (early? I meant to see LATE) as next week, but a date still hasn’t been set because the defense team still. hasn’t finished examining Caylee’s remains. It may occur next Thursday but that is tentative. (Didn’t Baez say not too long ago that he didn’t know what the hold up was–it wasn’t him?  Do we know for a fact who is responsible for releasing the remains to the family? I don’t know for sure, but I would think it would be Casey. I’ve also read that the defense was finished with the actual physical body quite a while ago.)

According to Fox 35 Cindy has been making lots of preparations for the public memorial that was tentatively scheduled for February 10 at the First Baptist Church of Orlando.  This particular church’s sanctuary can hold up to 5000 people, and is pre-wired for video.  The media will be able to record the service without disrupting it.

Cindy has already selected the flowers for the altar and also the music.

Obviously you do not need a physical body in order to have a “memorial”.  If you want to have a memorial for the public then have it already! If you don’t want to have one, then don’t!  HELLO!!!  It doesn’t matter if the body has been released or not!   Personally, I would rather know this little angel has been laid in her permanent resting place than to watch some meaningless memorial.  Notice I said “know” she was laid to rest and not “see” she was laid to rest.  Have the private service quietly–don’t inform the public–just do it.  Let it be known after the fact.  If they’re so worried about the grave being robbed or some other nonsense, don’t disclose the location. That part is really none of our business anyway.

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  1. friendlymom permalink
    February 5, 2009 9:03 am

    Well said Mystery! I agree with every word. It isn’t our business, and probably should not be made public. (although, someone will find it eventually) There is no reason to hold up the memorial, if they want to do it, and they don’t have to. They do not owe the public anything. And quite frankly, can’t anyone hold a memorial? Why does it have to be done by the Athonys? Why doesn’t someone in the media put something together, if they are so concerned about it?

  2. itsamysterytome permalink*
    February 5, 2009 9:31 am

    I would say, yep, anyone can hold a memorial–of course we all saw how well that went over with Cindy when Lenny had one.

    It just isn’t making sense to me why they all keep saying we can’t have the memorial because we don’t have the body. A memorial and a funeral are two different things altogether.

  3. pak31 permalink
    February 5, 2009 9:42 am

    OMG. Thank you for that post. You are always thinking like I do. I too don’t understand what all the b.s. is about. I wish the Anthony’s would just concentrate on themselves and the memory of their grandchild. Don’t worry about us, even though most of us are well wishers and feel for them, this isn’t about us. It’s about healing their family’s pain. Poor George just got released from the hospital, do this for him and don’t worry about making sure that Joe Blow has a chance to come by and pay his respects. I can say a prayer and wish the Anthony family well from my kitchen just the same as if I did at a memorial service. I guess, for me personally, I would want this private. Just because the media sensationalized this case doesn’t mean the A’s need to give in to that.

  4. MAND permalink
    February 5, 2009 9:51 am

    Good Morning Mystery,
    I agree 100%…..this has gone on long enough..they seem to pass around the blame for this poor child not being laid to rest.
    They say there is to be a memorial then change the date or they can’t set the date because the body has not been released..then why release this to the public..if they are not sure?
    As you said remains are needed to have a memorial…just do it. Why keep stalling?

    The family should have a private burial or whatever it is they are planning…why do they feel the need to let the public know? They want their privacy they have a chance at having that so why don’t they take it?
    As for the grave being bothered…like someone said one has bothered Anna Nichole”s grave site .
    It seems everything this family does turns into a big story for the media..and a little more publicity for all the attorneys involved. JMO

  5. MAND permalink
    February 5, 2009 9:56 am

    Why not set up an address where the public can send a card to the family and convey their condolences?

  6. Paul in PG BC permalink
    February 5, 2009 10:00 am

    Seems to me a month ago HOSE B was blaming the prosecutors office for the hold up!!Well BS to you Hose B,he’s holding them hostage!As for the psycho one she has a hand in this too,she has nothing better to do then make ppl’s lives miserable from the jail.Maybe Hose B is the one they should throw rocks at.

  7. itsamysterytome permalink*
    February 5, 2009 10:55 am

    I just hope this public memorial doesn’t have anything to do with monetary gain. I hope the delays don’t have anything to do with some kind of licensing in the works.

  8. friendlymom permalink
    February 5, 2009 11:10 am

    They have a reason for not doing it, and I would guess it’s one; not wanting to face the public, two; not wanting to face the reality of Caylee’s murder, and three; because it is final.

  9. friendlymom permalink
    February 5, 2009 11:11 am

    You said it sister! You took the words right out of my mouth. I was just getting ready to say they are probably working out some contract for the media.

  10. friendlymom permalink
    February 5, 2009 11:12 am

    With their money issues, they are probably trying to work something out that would help bring in some much needed dough.

  11. friendlymom permalink
    February 5, 2009 11:14 am

    Of course, they would not be in such dire straights, if they would have come clean from the start. They would not have needed a lawyer, and they would not have missed much work, and they would not have had so much media attention, and public harrassment.
    They have caused their own problems.

  12. friendlymom permalink
    February 5, 2009 11:16 am

    If they would have come clean, people would have been more inclined to give them their peace and time to grieve. Too bad they cannot see this. Yes, people would have been interested in speaking with them, but would be patient until after the trial. They simply would understand. But when you act dishonest and secretive, it justs makes them more demanding of a story.

  13. friendlymom permalink
    February 5, 2009 11:17 am

    They, and Bozo have created the madness.

  14. friendlymom permalink
    February 5, 2009 11:19 am

    I can understand them saying “no comment until the trial is over”, but to lie and make ill excuses, I cannot understand. I am sure they do not want to cause harm to Casey’s trial, but it would be better to have said from the get go simply “no comment”. They are the ones who brought the beasts out of everyone.

  15. itsamysterytome permalink*
    February 5, 2009 11:20 am

    You are exactly right, friendlymom. This circus didn’t bring itself to town.

  16. friendlymom permalink
    February 5, 2009 11:21 am

    All of the lying, denying, and story changing is what pissed everyone off.

  17. friendlymom permalink
    February 5, 2009 11:21 am

    No is did not. And Casey and Cindy are still fighting for ring master position.

  18. friendlymom permalink
    February 5, 2009 11:22 am

    I hope all is well for George. I can only imagine that it is not.

  19. friendlymom permalink
    February 5, 2009 11:23 am

    I hope he is still getting help.

  20. friendlymom permalink
    February 5, 2009 11:24 am

    Hopefully, he is getting ready to pack his bags and leave. It would be in his best interest. Not to sound mean, but I feel it’s true.

  21. friendlymom permalink
    February 5, 2009 11:25 am

    I just feel Cindy is going to take him backward, and pull him back into the dark place.

  22. friendlymom permalink
    February 5, 2009 11:26 am

    Cindy has got to be wearing on their attorney as well. He is probably getting tired of her BS too.

  23. friendlymom permalink
    February 5, 2009 11:28 am

    You know something else I thought of, have you ever heard it mentioned about Cindy having a close friend that is at her side? I haven’t. That says a lot about her.

  24. friendlymom permalink
    February 5, 2009 11:29 am

    Her only friends are those who stand at gaining something; Michelle Bart and all the other crooks and snakes.

  25. friendlymom permalink
    February 5, 2009 11:30 am

    Birds of a feather my friend.

  26. friendlymom permalink
    February 5, 2009 11:47 am

    Mystery, did you read the info on scaredmonkey about the ZG citations and such? What do you think? Do you think Casey was using that name, or do you think there is a ZG out there in hiding?

  27. MAND permalink
    February 5, 2009 12:25 pm

    Mystery…I didn’t think of that…but now that you brought it wouldn’t surprise me…sort of explains the delays and all the running in circles blaming everyone…it’s buying time for them to get all the roaches on board.

  28. alex permalink
    February 5, 2009 12:39 pm

    There is no Zenaida Gonzales…all are Casey’s lies
    She lied about everything…everything
    This case has made me crazy. I cannot stop thinking about little Caylee. If Casey hadn’t lied and if the family hadn’t lied and lied, there wouldn’t be this media circus. Casey did all of this. Casey is to blame for it all.

  29. itsamysterytome permalink*
    February 5, 2009 12:50 pm

    friendly mom–do you have a link to the monkey thread?

    I hope I’m wrong about that Mand, but I read somewhere that Cindy has signed some kind of deal with Fox News. I can’t verify it yet, so don’t know if it’s true.

    alex–The Anthony family—all of them, appear to have lived with lies as a regular routine long before Caylee disappeared.

    Casey is responsible for what has happened, but the lying part–she’s just doin’ what came naturally in her family. She’s just taken it to the extreme.

  30. MAND permalink
    February 5, 2009 1:09 pm

    Sounds about right for the A’s always looking out for the old greenback…they have to have some way to make a living. I doubt she has a job any longer..and that is probably why Lee moved back..he’s the only one with a job.

    George is not going to be able to be employed for awhile…of course he could file for medical disability from SS and then for full benefits should they find he will not be able to be gainfully employed in the future.

  31. itsamysterytome permalink*
    February 5, 2009 2:51 pm

    I thought George was already on disability?

  32. MAND permalink
    February 5, 2009 2:59 pm

    What sort of disability? From his job?? If it was SS. why would he be looking for employment??
    It is more than likely from his last place of employment….do you see a pattern of work habits emerging? Knee surgery etc.

  33. niecey456 permalink
    February 5, 2009 4:15 pm

    Hey Mystery, Wesh 2 is reporting a funeral for Feb. 10.

  34. MAND permalink
    February 5, 2009 4:50 pm

    Niecey..and Mystery..they reported it on HLN Prime News…they called the church and they said it is set for Tue.Feb.10th.
    Do you think it will finally happen? Will it be with or with out the remains??

  35. niecey456 permalink
    February 5, 2009 5:04 pm

    A funeral usually means with. Let’s hope and pray they are finally going to lay that baby to rest!

  36. MAND permalink
    February 5, 2009 5:23 pm

    Amend to that’s way past time>

  37. niecey456 permalink
    February 5, 2009 5:37 pm

    Yes it is.

  38. February 6, 2009 12:35 am

    i am sorry but i figured out why they are having the memorial.Lee and George will be ushers and they will pass the collection plate. 5000 people they might do well, if not maybe they are planning on charging admission. with Cindy all things are possible.

  39. MAND permalink
    February 6, 2009 1:52 am

    Grandma+4..are you serious??Of course it sounds about par for the course with this bunch.
    Conway said tonight on Larry K. that both the state and defense have finished with Caylee’s remains and that is why they were able to go ahead with the memorial..then in the next breath said..Caylee’s remains will not be at the memorial..and the A’s have not had a funeral yet..Cindy wanted to do this for the public…WHAT THE HELL IS THAT??? She has a public memorial..and we all know Cindy has not been a fan of the public..but she is having a memorial before thinking of her granddaughter in a cardboard box..waiting to be be given the respect she so coffin..just a cardboard box..WHAT THE HELL KIND OF PERSON IS SHE?? When is someone going to put Caylee first???
    Cindy is treating this as the event of the year..there will be those that will not be admitted if they are on her list..but it’s for the public?? She can put on this huge grandiose spectacle..but not a simple private funeral..why??she wants the public to see how much KC and the family are mourning Caylee..she’s putting on a show..BUT THEY WANT PRIVACY..this is how this case has become such a media circus..if they are left alone..Cindy finds some way to stir things up.
    This is giving me a headache..better stop’s 3am..time I try to sleep..I’m just so peed off at what I’ve heard tonight..and I’m not even going to go into the photos Dumbo and the KC.bitch are peddling for the highest buck..
    NO RESPECT FOR CAYLEE…I HOPE THEY ALL ROT IN HELL..even that would be to good for them!!!

  40. itsamysterytome permalink*
    February 6, 2009 6:55 am

    That’s funny grandma—I hope. I hope they don’t do something like that.


    I guess if Cindy has Caylee cremated (I think Brad Conway said that was a possibility) she doesn’t have to have a private funeral at all if she doesn’t want to. She could sit her urn on her mantle and keep Caylee’s ashes with her and under her “watchful” eye forever. Maybe that’s what she’s already done. Does anyone know FOR SURE that Caylee’s remains are still at the funeral home? They managed to sneak George out of the hospital undetected.

  41. MAND permalink
    February 6, 2009 9:27 am

    Good Morning Mystery…
    All I know is when asked Conway said the remains were still at the funeral home…I tend to believe him since George has not been around for a funeral..But no not for sure..they all lie.
    That could be another reason..but I would bet the cost of a burial is a major factor…KC needs defense money…

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